Types Of Men … Rescue or Run?
-By L. S. P.
The world of dating can be described in four words: Walking in the dark. This article sheds some light on the winding journey you're destined for - finding the right man. To help you navigate these treacherous waters, I’ve put together a list of men that you may think are worth rescuing. However, my advice to you is RUN. Committing to someone consumes a large portion of your being, and as we all know, life is too short. Heed this guide as a warning to proceed cautiously in your love life. There’s nothing worse than giving your all to someone; sharing those precious and intimate moments… all for what? Another heartbreak and lost time, never to be returned.
The manipulator
Everyone knows the age-old motto: love is blind. Before your eyes are inevitably clouded by the possibilities this man presents, focus on what’s in front of you. Does he exhibit signs of manipulation? Girl, the sweet smile and long lashes aren’t fooling anyone. You know those fancy dates and the expensive gifts he buys after an argument? That isn’t an apology, it’s compensation for his sh*tty behaviour. Make a beeline for the exit.
The overachiever
Don’t get me wrong, we love to see a successful man thrive. But, sadly, men suffer from some kind of immaturity syndrome. With immaturity comes competition. In a relationship, partners should work and effectually, grow together. Yet, some men feel the need to work against you. I don't know what they’re trying to prove to who, but here’s what I can tell you: 1. He isn’t a provider - he’s insecure &
2. He isn’t ready for a relationship.
The ‘over-extender’
Ah, this type of man goes by many names: ‘Mr helpful’, ‘Bob the builder’, ‘Fix it Felix’... you catch my drift. He would sail the seven seas and travel to the deepest, darkest corners of the earth to help an ailing someone. That's all good and well until it ends up being you who takes the backseat. There’s no ifs, whats’, or buts’ about it. If he won't put you first, then put yourself first. Leave.
The ‘mansplainer’
Everyone needs help sometimes, it's nothing to be ashamed of. Yet, these men have the innate ability to make you feel foolish for even asking a simple question. He should be assisting you, not belittling you. Delivery matters, and him questioning your capabilities is not it. If y’all can’t interact with a mutual level of maturity and respect, then he isn’t the one for you. Escape.
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